This past week, was a difficult one in our household. We unexpectedly had to say goodbye to one of our 4 legged family members, Maggie. She was a dog we had for over 10 years. This is one of the absolute hardest parts of being a pet owner. You know that they won’t live forever, you will eventually have to say goodbye, but I don’t think that reality makes it any easier. It is even harder with kids. 

Our daughters are almost 7, 5, and 15 months. The baby doesn’t know the difference, but the older two knew exactly what was happening. Chris and I wondered how we were going to break the news to them. What is the best way to share and explain what is happening? The girls could tell that she wasn’t herself, they knew she was sick the week leading up to that day, but they didn’t know it was that bad. 

I did do a little reading to see how others had suggested to share. There was 1 resounding theme in all the posts I read… tell the truth. Don’t tell them the dog ran away, is off at a farm, or whatever. 

Chris and I were very honest with them when explaining what was happening, that she wouldn’t come home. She is in a better place no longer suffering. They were upset, and it was difficult to watch, but I like to think that they will appreciate the honesty, even later in life. This experience is something that will stay with them. No matter how you slice it. It is not easy. 

All we can do is remember her, laugh at our memories, look at pictures, and talk about her. I think she would have wanted that. They asked if we will get another dog, and the time isn’t right for us now. We still have our other dog Brady, he’s a little white dog that will probably be with us forever, but then also, we need to some time to not have the extra responsibility at home, which may be the silver lining? 

Until next time my friends, much love,

Court